The Sibling SLAM Book
What it’s REALLY like to have a brother or sister with special needs
By Don Meyer, editor ~ 2005
Foreword
By David Gallagher
My little brother is the coolest kid. His name is Killian and he was diagnosed with autism when he was three. Between working on 7th Heaven and attending college, I’m not at home as much as I used to be. But when I am, it’s the greatest thing - usually! Killian certainly lets me know that he’s glad to see me. We play video games for hours and listen to music. Killian lip-syncs the words and makes funny faces and we spend most of the time laughing.
But life with Killian can be frustrating, too. Sometimes he acts like a baby when he doesn’t get what he wants or tries to do something that might get him hurt or in trouble. He reverts to crying like an infant and that can be really annoying. I always try to be patient, and in a lot of ways, Killian has taught me patience – but it is still annoying.
Life with Killian is your basic mixed bag.
That’s why I love THE SIBLING SLAM BOOK. It’s great to read about sibs who are experiencing the same things I am and feeling what I often feel. It lets you know you’re not alone!
As I read the questions and answers, it reminded me of the emotional rollercoaster my family has been on with Killian. It reminded me why my brother is so special to me and voiced the frustration I often feel about the things that aren’t so special. In a lot of important ways, this book acknowledges the unsung heroes in the lives of kids with spcia1 needs: their siblings.
Many thanks to Don Meyer and all the authors for asking me to be a part of this wonderful project. It’s a brilliant way to let brothers and sisters know there are other people out there just like them.
David Gallagher
Actor 7th Heaven, The WB Network
Youth Ambassador, CAN (Cure Autism Now)
